Relationships fail when one person is emotionally unavailable. Loving and being in a relationship with someone requires you to fully immerse yourself in their feelings and express them with intensity.
If you can't express what you feel and go through, the other person won't know you, and if you're emotionally unavailable, your spouse may drift apart and leave you.
No one wants a failing relationship, so here are some strategies for being more emotionally open as a partner.
Why don't you feel worthy of love? Do you worry that your partner would reject you if they know you fully? You and your lover must discuss your worth and love. And importantly, you must examine why you struggle to express and be emotionally open. If needed, see a relationship counselor.
Empathize and care for your spouse to make them feel connected and respected. It takes intimacy. Focus on comprehending this.
If you're emotionally unavailable as a relationship, you may have a covert life without your partner knowing, which is bad. A relationship failure backup plan is impossible. You anticipate rejection and have a hidden life to remove yourself. A relationship with so many secrets won't last. You must be open with your partner about your life.
Put your spouse first, not last. Make it known via your deeds, not just words. Your words are empty without actions to show your lover you care. You must be available most of the time to make time for them.
Keep your cool and don't say or do anything to hurt your spouse. Don't threaten to quit the relationship or abuse your spouse when things go wrong. Instead, discuss your concerns with your spouse and find a solution. Share your greatest disappointments and hopes. Healthy relationships need both physical and emotional contact.